1 John 4:19 We love because he first loved us.
It takes fire to make fire. There is love because of God. He is love. We are being loved on by him. We must open our eyes and see. The love expressed by you is that reflection of the Fathers love for you. Make that reflection bright.
You do this by acknowledging his love for you. You must see it in the good and the perceived bad. He is always loving. When you see it, acknowledge it and speak this truth and you will in a greater way exhibit it.
This love is his; that love that he has shown you. Try not to love more but first receive his love by faith in every situation. Thank him. Brag about his love. This will free you to flow in this love and then, watch it pour out of you.